Dolan’s films capture the raw, screaming matches and fierce tenderness that define troubled maternal relationships. In Mommy , we see a widowed mother and her violent, ADHD-afflicted son. Dolan uses a tight, claustrophobic 1:1 screen aspect ratio to visually represent the suffocating nature of their love. They need each other to survive, yet their personalities spark explosions, capturing the chaotic reality of unconditional but deeply flawed love. 3. Redemption and Resilience: Room and Belfast

In Call Me By Your Name by André Aciman, the real love story isn’t just between Elio and Oliver; it’s between Elio and his mother. After his heartbreak, it is his mother who picks him up, who reads him the story of the knight and the princess, who normalizes his queer desire without ever labeling it. She is the safe harbor literature promises us.

The impact on her sons is profoundly fractured. Jewel, Addie’s favorite (and illegitimate) son, expresses his fierce devotion through stoic, aggressive actions, protecting her coffin at all costs. Meanwhile, Darl is driven to madness by the emotional void his mother's death leaves behind. Faulkner showcases how a mother remains the gravitational pull of her sons' lives, even from beyond the grave.