Being a step-mom is often a thankless role that takes time, patience, and a lot of emotional energy. Many step-mothers feel confused or frustrated about their place within the family, struggling with:
According to the Victoria Family Institute’s 2024 report , 73% of stepmothers in blended families report symptoms of role ambiguity—a psychological state defined by not knowing what is expected of them. Unlike biological mothers, stepmothers have no cultural script. Unlike fathers, they have no legal standing. They are, as one local therapist put it, “an employee without a job description.” familytherapy victoria june step moms new deal work